Phil in the Blanks: ft.The Behavior Panel - Looking for Patterns (PART 2)

You talk about peoples perspective on a "bad day". I agree totally there. As messed up as this will sound, I am glad I got cancer in my mid 20's. I was put on a young persons ward when I went in for chemo. I saw kids from ages 9-15 who were dealing with cancer they could never beat. All that could be done was extending their life. They never seemed to moan about anything not related to how chemo was making them feel sick. THAT is a bad day. The strength of character & will I saw was awe inspiring. & that stopped me, from that day onward, from ever saying "I had the worst day EVER!". Cause Feth knows others have it a million times worse than I do.
I hope everyone is having an amazing week & much love to all from here in the UK

I am so happy everyone did this. So much incredible info (in both episodes)! The quote from Chases’s mentor hit me like a brick wall. “If somebody else talked to you the way you talk to yourself, you’d knock their teeth out”. Really resonated with me. Overall the episode left me with a lot to think about (which I love) 😎. Thanks guys!!!

Powerful stuff. And so true. As a man thinketh... This/these topic/s has been something I've been living and working on in my own life recently. Changing how I think, what I think. How I live my life and how I see myself. Making a deliberate choice and effort to look, be and live a positive life after all the years of trauma and damage. It's do-able. Change the negative thoughts, use critical thinking. Make the choice to change my vision of myself. 😃 In my life, having God has helped make the difference in this process.

Growing up in South Africa, I have been held at gunpoint, attacked and severly tortured for more tha 5 hours and high jacked. We have to move on, but these days I trust my gut feeling and I also look at pattern changes in people and places and situations. This protected me a few times. Always believe in your gut

Interestingly, my son and his partner rescued a lovely nine months old dog, when they got home, he was given a toy to play with, he spent a great deal of time on his back, paws in the air, it was amazing! Obviously he knew he could trust them from the moment they met!

Nice segment. God bless you all!

I love The Behavior Panel. Those Fabulous 4 have made such a difference in my life! I'm addicted to their show and to Scott in particular. 💕

Can’t get enough of this A team with Dr Phil. Thank you gentlemen ~ incredible content, so inspiring and essential for social survival these days. AND DR PHIL HAS THE MOST GORGEOUS HANDS❣️

Thank you! So many good points! I loved the part about being realistic when we tell ourselves what’s “horrible” in our lives. My husband used to say, there are problems and there are annoyances. That is an annoyance!
Also intrigued by the conversation around how we form our self image. loved your example of the little girl who could “zip, button and tie!” Feeling competent about things she had conquered in life. So powerful!

This stuff is great I've only got about 300hrs in watching and listening to these guys and it's changed the way I look at the world. It becomes second nature

Hi, This is a study of five intelligent, educated, well read guys, having a blast talking about their thing, with a lot fun and mutual respect. I wish this was a daily experience for every person everywhere. Thanks so much for the video. Yours, Ann

Excellent! Excellent…. From myself and my adult kids… thank u 🙏 for taking the time to teach important life changing lessons. Can’t get enough!

Enjoyed the discussion soooooo much. Thank you @DrPhil and @TheBehaviorPanel

All I have to say is… This was a GOOD show!!!!!!!! Thank you guy’s for the insight 💝

I could listen to you guys talk for another 5 hours.
Love you all ❤❤❤❤

THANK YOU FOR THIS👍👍

I can really relate with the patient you had Dr. Phil. I was working as an intermediary at a children's hospital through an agency I was working with. For myself, I tried not to compare myself to others with what I experienced in nursing, but there was an immense amount of frustration being 18-23 and dealing with death, disease and relating to my friends too.
It's great to hear the more personal side of you, and the mask being lifted to generate conversations and allowing yourself to heal by being vulnerable and I feel less alienated knowing someone else older/more experience felt the same way I did.

Sometimes people are nervous because they are introverts and very shy in social gatherings or crowds, and are self conscious

I used to care a big deal about feedback. I still do, but now I know that is mostly reflects the speaker.

I do the same thing in a restaurant Dr Phil, and I grew up with an alcoholic father so I learned self preservation because of that

Dr phil a top guy he loves dogs you can tell 💙💎❄️💎💙🐶💙💙💎❄️

I love this point about moving slowly

Some real gems in there thanks . I think this video be used in schools as teenagers would learn so much in terms of life skills.

There are also people who pretend to be celebrities on social media so I shut them down or I push for more so they trip themselves up & they always say the same exact thing opening up that hopeful conversation that will eventually will lead to asking for money ❤

Lol..I love it when the dog has alot of human features

I wasn’t good with numbers until I was a single mother raising 3 daughters (now grown) and I was super good at feeding those people when I was in the grocery store and I didn’t even need a calculator ❤

That’s funny Mark my daughter and I were just discussing the same thing about our dogs they say “aren’t they the strangest dogs ever?”

This was so impactful and it went deep. Thank you to all of you.

Wonderful conversation. I learned so much. Thank you.

I'd love to hear more from Greg about why this is "the most dangerous time America has lived in" -= not an exact quote! Because we can't vistually 'read' social media?

Dr Phil l listen to you every day ❤ love your work 🔥👊

Yesssss
Super good show.
I have in the past 2 decades been evaluating the behavior of horses on up close, their confirmation, how they are put together vs function, the whorl placement vs behavior, their diet vs emotions.
And then I started filling human physical traits with body language and vocal statements or facial similarities with emotions.
Just my own observation but they almost mirror each other.
Thank you so very much for everything, I'm just a person who is an observer if I find a similar characteristic.
It truly is fascinating, more so on animal behavior tho.
Next personal observation I hope will be with cows whorl placement vs emotions.

Fascinating insights...very very deep. Thanks to everyone; your wisdom is beyond invaluable.

I want to thank you all for this great video. So much info that we can use so much. I have a large notepad next to me and wrote down a lot, which I will really learn and use. Best wishes to you all 🤗 and greets from the Netherlands

I used to watch Dr. Phil a lot. Honestly to understand people, basically. And I have watched a lot of the behavior panel s videos too! I really like the four guys. I would have loved a woman on there 😄 But you guys definitely do great! I love the respect you have for each others opinions etc. And your alike, but also different, reactions to different people and their behavior.
That was just a kind of intro 😂
This video really made me realize some things about my behavior.
I am autistic, and I have a big sorrow in my life, which is that I wish to be more social. To find good friends. But I have tried my whole life (I am 40 years old), and non of my friends have stuck. Some have just disappeared out of my life. Some I have parted with, because I didn't think they were good for me to have in my life. And now I am scared to even try, anymore.. I don't trust myself finding new friends. Because I think I have a tendency to find kind of narcissistic types, who like to have me around, but does not have my back when I need it.
But also people seem to not engage with me.. And this is why I am writing right now.. I believe people think I am more insecure than I am. Sometimes dumber then I am (I am a mensa member, so not unintelligent 😆). But I realized, that I maybe displaying nervous behavior.. maybe kind of "ready to fight".. or flight 😆 -kind of body language.
I have wondered and wondered what it is that people misread or don't like enough, in me, to want to get to know me better..
And my thinking is now, that maybe, this is one reason.. (my body language)
I know this issue is not what you are doing.. But could you maybe help autistic people understanding their own body language, and what we can do to get better across to others? And not get so misunderstood all the time.
Maybe in a way where we can still, in some way, self sooth, as we probably need to do that?
(All five of you, or just the behavior panel)
I don't know.. something like that. I would LOVE some help, as I am desperat to understand how I can get good friends in my life, that actually wants to be there!
Hope this moment makes sense to you 😊 ❤️

@Scott....you are definitely LOVED by many people, you hear? That counts for each of you, including Dr. Phil😁 The haters who are calling you all names or whatever, are probably interregated by you and caught lying in any sort of way or were get busted👍.....or they are just jealous of what you are doing and all of the knowledge you all have. Just saying....😉 Greets from the Netherlands😀👋

The child being carried in to class gets to observe the child opening the door and walking in

I'm so late to this....wow....this was the best brain juice....you guys all together are the best....its like a spinach energy drink boost...lol...please keep giving everyone your amazing knowledge....you are all so humble and brilliant....love you Dr phil you have been my hero for years getting me through hard times here in Canada....bless you ❤️

What happens when someone suffers from CPTSD and are in consistent " fight or flight mode"?. Perhaps they are being honest, but because of extreme anxiety, their body reacts?

@Dr.Phill, as a professional pet groomer of 25+ years I can assure you a dog exposing their belly doesn't always mean the dog is "comfortable".

In the insurrection we went thru recently I think this movement of crowd and looking for someone breaking the pattern would have been very useful. I remember there were a bunch of men with all sorts of weapons and zip ties and things and they were moving very purposely, not with the crowd, but coordinated, when you see it on film you immediately get a feeling of something being very calculated and even more frightening than the ones who were killing the cops.

Loved this thank-you for sharing pretty interesting stuff 😊

Great discussions 🌻

If telling your children they are smart and beautiful sets them up for unrealistic positive self-views and telling them when they need to improve is considered being critical and leads to unrealistic negative self-views, how do you balance the two for a healthy outcome?

I was thinking about the flip side of the attributes coin. I have found that if you are the first one to work, start the computers, make the coffee, buy into furthering your training/education, refuse to censorship stuff, the ones who just want to show, do the bare minimums, and get their before going home will sabotage you along the way.

Nice..thanks Dr phil

I read/heard recently a woman cannot take the heroes journey and that needs unpacking I feel.

How can anyone hate on you guys?!?!

Have a blessed day 😀

Awesome

That was so positively positive that I’m surprised. Your conclusive remarks said it. Yes. What a pleasure.

Scott Rouse 🥰😍😘💕

Dr Phil a BRILLIANT MIND and powerful guest for you would be Laura Richards UK.

I am so curious about chases Books they are in sections of color. I put mine in order of size. I wonder what it means the way he arranges this books.

Please where is Part 1 ? It is no where to be found at all...It is not in tge channel !

I've always wondered how lie detectors could be an accurate way of discovering untruths based on what u guys are saying because even getting a baseline of how the answer easy Baseline questions, if your half way Intelligent your going to recognize the threatening questions and act accordingly, as you say primarily even if you're telling the truth. (?)

Mark, did you throw a bucket of ice water on a Japanese Monk.

Darwin forgot to mention devolution.

I plan on ordering RFK Jr. Book The real Dr. Fauci. Include incorporate all aspects.

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I can't believe people are on the side of this man who literally said men can't be abused, what's wrong with dr phil

Reminds me of a dangerous time for me. 2 enemies in same place n human wise; they had only power over each other. Pbtmljcnhhga

Since gaby petito dont watch those guys who have the arrogance to present themselves as experts

You guys are so knowledgeable..but NOT when it comes to the truth that we are God's creation

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Greg u talk v fast. Plz talk little bit slow.

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ryan tarhan wants to be your grandson reply to him
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Whole lotta boomers on the screen

That’s funny about your Knick names. You all are great ! Thank you !